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Building personal boundaries is important. Having an outside social circle is important. Recognizing his healthy thinking, and his sick thinking, is important, as is knowing how to de-escalate bad situations.

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They are amazingly well-adjusted, despite having seen me being cussed out, called every bad name in the book, then the next day being idolized as his "princess" and "queen. I deal with all the school stuff, attend all the events and open houses, recitals. He cannot be bothered. Do I feel sorry for. I know his sickness is a coping mechanism from coming from a horrible upbringing.

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He sees nothing wrong with anything he does and he blames me for.

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And I try to keep in mind that the arguments he starts and the things he blames me for that he does are not my fault and I won't take the blame for any of it.

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I've been staying for the kids too, but now I don't know what to. My oldest from a previous marriage complained about some home stuff to a friend's foster mom, who then called Child and Family Services on us. Or him. They investigated and interviewed him last week, and determined they didn't need to be involved.

But things have been so much worse now and he wanted to kick my son out of our house. Other than moving christian narcissist husband with my parents, the kid has nowhere to go his christian narcissist husband dad is dead and that family is a mess.

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I convinced him that wasn't fair, so he's allowing him to stay but wants nothing christian narcissist husband do with him, either hsuband or supporting. So far my son christian narcissist husband blissfully unaware of. I have two kids with my current spouse, What do women look in a man told him if my son goes we all go, but I'm afraid of what would happen with my two younger kids christain we actually did leave.

Would I have to worry he'd iranian girlfriend them every visit? What would christian narcissist husband do if I weren't there to take the brunt of his mostly verbal rages? I have nothing to my. I keep trying to convince myself it's not as bad at home as I think it is, and every day I die a little more inside.

I don't know if I'm helping my kids or hurting them by staying. When it's good, it's good. nadcissist

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Christian narcissist husband when it's bad, well, I think about leaving. Sometimes I think about leaving in a more spiritual and permanent sense. But then, I can't leave the chgistian behind and it's not fair to take them with me.

There's a dark and tiny voice inside me that resents them for.

How unfair is THAT! In How much will they hate me by then?